I had a very interesting chat with a very close friend this morning.

Topic 1 - When u r unhappy, u just dun wish to talk to certain ppl whom make u unhappy, so u choose to dessert yourself for a while, nothing wrong right?

Friend:yup mei you bu dui (nothing wrong), its normal la. Actually when you are unhappy with someone, i'll pity that person although he/she may be the one who offended you first.. bcos you totally dont give face

**very interesting that someone I knew for 2 years plus know me so so well...so for someone more than coming 5 years...please learn**

One example of another person whom understand me quite well..My Mum :)

I scolded my maid last friday as my younger brother complained to me about her. She is pestering basically everyone in the family and telling them I did not send back money for her.

I need to explain myself here.. She told me on sat (09th August) very late at night, sunday I do not come work in Orchard, so cannot send. Monday, holiday in lieu but I am back to work due to having a conference training...busy clearing work as going to Mumbai on Tues to Thurs...

When I was back home on Monday, after I had my late lunch, she "sent" my mum to check when I sending money for her. I said Friday...then next moment, I heard her putting a plate heavily on the kitchen table.

At night, my mum told me she cried and showed black face to her. I have no chance to scold my maid as she was showering and I am rushing to buy some food for my Mumbai trip. Eventually, I decided to drop her a note on her pay checklist to watch her attitude.

Friday came..and as promised I wanted to remit money for her during lunch time. 10.30am, my younger brother called me to complained that my maid is irritating him to the max...He mentioned "we bought everything for her and do not need her to pay...she just take things for granted, we are too nice to her lah!"

My maid actually approached my brother help her to write her husband's bank account to give me....(Firstly, I am in office, so no point...secondly, she already confirmed it is the same account...so I did not check further...but anyway....she is just trying to test our patience and she succeeded!!)

I finally gave her a piece of my mind in office with only 10% of my usual temper...and my colleagues already said that I am very fierce....Ok...end of story....few days after I scolded her, my maid went to my mum to tell her about it (Obviously my mum know about the scolding part)...Mum's reply as below:

"ken is my son, i also dun keep asking and reminding him to do things, because when he say he will do, he will"

Oh!! Thank you so much mummy :) Happy birthday to you!! (although you won't read my blog...hehehe)

Topic 2 - From your point of view, if your boyfriend always mood swing, u can tolerate?

Friend : of cos not la,

Me : As a friend and brother, i dun want to give u pressure on your relationship, but i always want to tell u that what for waste time on someone whom to me, dun have anything that i can see give u happiness. I see alot of ppl in relationship, some are gone case, some really CMI(cannot make it)...for your partner, i only classified him as "can let go case", no plus factors

Friend :i know what you mean...maybe im wasting time la, but i always believe that what will happen will happen, as in my life has already been planned so shun qi zi rang lor. Anyway im not 28 and must get married liao ma

Me: hmm...ok..i can understand that point...

Friend: plus i didnt know any new guys

Me :but my point is now u r XX now, very fast will turn 28. The point is u dun dump one when one better one come, u have to be single for a while and it is like resume (must present good employment record)...but not the same principle like job hunting (meaning find one job then resign)

Me : hmm..i think i sound like CJ's concept on comparison....