Last sat, I made a casual comment that caused a couple to be in "cold" war. I know that I am always direct and can be very blunt with my words towards people I dislike or some issues that concern my good friends.

I must say that I am not protective towards my good friend, but things that I see and know always make me wonder what is on the other parties' mind. I do not want to post what happened here, but I have the following concerns on different people in my life which I really want to wash my hands off!!

Cases as below:

1. Buying something which you already owned but due to luxury purpose, show off or whatever and not thinking of your own family.

2. Spending on trip aimlessly and unnecessarily when knowing have to save up money as there are not much income recently.

3. No interest on own business. No management or effort to make the business grow, so why start one?

4. Spending time on irrelevant stuff instead of useful thing.

5. Selfish. Thinking about own self and does not think of the health and well being of your loved ones.

Big sighs!!!